This is gonna be a long ride so hold on and brace your self.
Friday-brothers came into town. Drama from the middle child as usual. Seems my lil ol brother and his ex have some issues. Also, he had a problem medically and was freaking out. Then his girlfriend decided to jump in on the parade and visit. BTW wasn't invited just showed up. So, my father and I got into a discussion regarding "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" no double standard, etc. Because of his gf it created more drama with when the time came and I had a man friend to come spend the night it would be fine. He would sleep on the couch and that was that. Well according to my father I am still a little girl and NO! Not in his house unless we were married. Yeah right so then my brothers would have the same rules. Um not so much. So I got an attitude as usual and became a complete B(*&^ and let him know that if you are setting rules for a grown woman then the same should apply to his younger children. His wife had more of a problem with my brother and was perfectly OK with me having the opposite sex over regardless if it was a friend or not. Needless to say my father did not have a case and I won that debate. I felt bad because he was obviously torn and I would ease him into the idea. I do not have anyone anyway I just wanted him to see his double standard at the moment he was doing it.
Saturday-You ready for it. So, got woken up at 6:30 by the middle brother telling me "secret" about his ex gf. Yeah I was up no doubt about it. He went to pick up his current gf and bring her here. FYI wasn't thrilled I felt as though she was messing up the dynamic of the weekend and she did. I got coned into cleaning the fish tank at the end of cleaning it my feet felt like they were on fire. (I have a appointment with the podiatrist's) His gf was there sitting on the couch with a look of pure disdain. I was very nice and polite I tried to be civil to her the entire time even though in my mind I was talking a mess of crap. OMG. At around 4ish my brother's problem got worse and had to go to emergency so off I went to again drop everything I had planned to take care of someone else. Please don't misconstrued it as I was upset but that I felt the dynamic was wrong I had my brother, his gf and me at the emergency room. She kept trying to pretend she new what she was talking about but um you don't put alcohol on it directly (FYI the doc even said that HA) . I was to go out with friends that night but was to exhausted and still at the emergency room to go, so I became a flake again. UGH... We finally got it all taken care of.
AHH and Sunday-got woken up at the crack of dawn by slamming, talking, laughing, slamming again. FYI-my weekends are a time for me to enjoy sleeping past 7:30. I only ask that I get quiet until 8am. My poor father was forced to go at 5:30 (hint time I woke up) and he wasn't the one to wake me nor were my brothers or gf. Got no need for a hint right. OK, so the clan all go and get the remaining items and stay home. I get to the park around 9am (no breakfast) and I get asked more than once "Why are you here so early", um my response each time "to help and I was up". Meantime while my father with a bad heart, leg and back is lifting things and the gf is sitting in the chair all bundled up. AHH precious. ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? Get off your tuckas and get to helpin you are younger and decided to invade the party so earn the dinner you got last night and help. NOPE she stayed in the chair until people arrived and was the "princess" meeting everyone. Some of the family were nicer than others and some were just UGH. The good thing was that my brother Mike said that he enjoyed hanging out with the family playing boccie and gossiping with family. The only thing that bothers me is that they will take English around you but when its something that they don't' want you to know then they say it in Italian thinking you don't' know what it is...Haha jokes on you I understand. SHH
To end the weekend we went home and I basically passed out from the heat and standing up, getting stung by a bee in my foot, the 4.7 Earthquake (um yeah we were in the middle) and having hives cover my entire body. Lucky me didn't get to go to bed for good until 11pm. I am tired and need another weekend for my weekend.
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