Music,
The root, foot, and soul of a person. This justifys the purity of how people are, feel and need to be in their lives. How on earth can a person signify oneself by just listening to one type of music when every type has something to say. I myself have been a victim of this by defining myself as listen to everything but METAL (yuck). It seems that every generation there is a stigma of what they choose is popular regardless of what type. The boyband type I listened to and still do occasionally however, if you think much more out of the box you come to realize that even linkin park, g-unit, limpbizkit, etc were all boybands as well. The sell out was and still is No doubt make up your mind are you SKA, PUNK, or POP because if you are then the category you belong in getting the awards should be such. Off the soap box now.

The business of being here and concentrating on things around is a big challenge for some. I feel the inablility to talk to someone face to face is a trait that is learned or just forgotten when establishing the heirarchal trend in the world or workforce.
Take the other approach and become your own person that does the best one can do and thrive on that high of life.