I need to spread the word about Greg you are a genius and I must Thank You repeatedly about letting women in on the male "voice" and women "screw ups". Greg wrote a book called "He's Just not that Into" great lil ditty and they finally made a movie. This movie is good so insightful, if you or a "friend" are anything like these woman be proud. They were all strong, somewhat independent (when it comes to work and friends, not relationships) just didn't see what they needed too. It was great and insightful, brilliant in some restraints and well the men were a bit like most men we women meet at bars, grocery stores, parties, etc. And they leave these begging questions1) Why arent' you calling me?
The movie answer's the question if a man wants to be with a woman he will make it happen any way he can, and if he wants to talk to you he will call you. So please stop staring at the phone (cell, landlines, work, etc.) if he doesn't move on.
2) If he says that he is going out of town and he talk to you later!!
Ladies he is blowing you off! Yep and don't let him give you his card, give him yours and only yours. Be strong that way you will know if he calls see answer to #1.
BONUS: Myspace, Facebook are the new booty calls, I had no idea.
The greatest thing ever is that "SPARK" was made up by a man, meaning that its his way of letting you down to make him less of a jerk. BRILLIANT. I so intend to use this, spark and chemistry are the new "its not you its me" or "I just want to be friends". LOVE IT!!
This movie made me realize how impersonal first dates are and what I miss about meeting people. How are you supposed to base your relationship on if your not friends first and why must there be innuendos regarding what a woman should or should not do. This is the age of time where we have rights and responsibilities that men do and are being recognized for just that. So I say women if you want to be "with" a man then go for it, and if you feel that there is no "spark" (see above) move on to the next Kahuna there are plenty left in the ocean and if not try a Lake.
Have you seen "The she found me" with Helen Hunt and Colin Firth?? Great movie in my opinion.
ReplyDelete"I'm taking my "eeerrrr, FUCK" out for a walk and YOU'RE not invitied!!" - Colin Firth
If you have netflix it has the 'watch now' option. If you have time, check it out and let me know what you thin, k :)
Awww man, I'm sorry. I totally posted the "F" word all willy nilly. :/ My bad lady!! But still, it's pretty funny when you see it in the movie.
ReplyDeleteLove ya